Monday, June 22, 2026

The stigma of going to therapy (and why it still exists)

Going to therapy still carries a stigma that, although it has decreased in some contexts, remains very present. For many people, the idea of seeing a psychologist is still associated with being “crazy,” “damaged,” or “sick.” That association oversimplifies something that is actually much more complex.

People go to therapy for many reasons. Some are going through intense emotional crises: losses, breakups, anxiety, or moments of overwhelm. Others seek help because they notice patterns in their lives that they can’t seem to change.

There are also those who want to better understand their personal or family history. And many simply want to grow, understand themselves more deeply, or develop tools to live with greater balance.

The idea that therapy is only for when “something is wrong” limits what therapy actually is: a space for psychological support, exploration, and change.

The stigma persists in part because we still tend to associate mental health with a rigid dichotomy: healthy or sick. Within that framework, seeking psychological help is interpreted as a personal failure, rather than an act of care.

Changing that narrative requires broadening the conversation. Going to therapy does not define someone as weak or broken. Rather, it reflects someone who recognizes their current limits and chooses to work with them.

Normalizing therapy is not only an individual matter. It is a cultural shift. And like any cultural shift, it begins with being able to talk about it without shame. – Izzy 💛